KNOW HOW TO REALLY STIMULATE THE CLITORIS
Researches made by American experts in sexology showed that in 95% of cases when women stimulate themselves by caressing the clitoris, they have strong orgasms. But when men touch them, the clitoridian orgasm is felt only in 44% of the cases. So we must plainly face an unpleasant fact: most men don't know how to touch the clitoris properly. But they can learn. Even those who are not familiar with this delicate and mysterious place or don't know how to find it, are able to learn how to caress the clitoris in order to bring the woman to orgasm.
Most men do not know the rhythm and pace of clitoral stimulation which satisfies a woman. They either touch it too strongly or they don't know how to modulate the caresses, sometimes they press this erotic zone too directly or immediately start touching it quickly. The touch of a man who is not initiated in the art of love may also be too jerky, too slow or may not find the most exciting rhythm or duration of stimulation which the woman wants.
Nevertheless, women always long to be caressed stronger or softer, although very rarely do they dare to express this hidden secret of theirs.
DISCOVER THE CLITORIS
In order to scrutinize every detail of the clitoris, the man must have a convenient angle of observation.
Widely open the woman's thighs and softly move away the major labia using your fingers. Thus notice that on the upper part of the genital zone the labia merges into one double fold, which has the shape of a mantle hood. This is the prepuce of the clitoris. It has to be pulled upwards very softly, thus revealing a prominent "ruby", having the size of a redcurrant seed: this is the clitoris.
If the clitoris is very excited, one could entirely feel the small spherical extremity - the glands of the clitoris - lay on a zone that represents the body of the clitoris.
When the woman explores this place, it gives her a delicious sensation. The man, at his turn will produce a reaction of intense pleasure to his lover, when caressing this zone. The woman may guide her lover in his findings, by using her groans, sighs and gestures...
WHY IS THE CLITORIS SO SENSITIVE?
The glands of the clitoris are the visible and perceptible extremity of a large and complex erectile ensemble, which is mostly found on the inner side of the woman's body.
The clitoris' tail, the two cavernous bodies of the clitoris and the vestibular bulbs of it are, in their turn, related with the vaginal plexus. The visible part of the clitoris represents only 4% of the whole erectile system.
During the excitation this erogenous system is filled with blood and thus, it can be noticed that the clitoris, the major labia and the vestibule of the vagina become red and swollen. By touching it, the softness of these tissues can also be noticed. Thus, on the whole, the sanguineous afflux at the clitoris area is richer than that at the penis area, but while the erection of the penis is spectacular, the dilation in the case of the woman takes place almost entirely in the inner side of the body. Thus, the clitoris is just the emergent part of pleasure's iceberg or the main jewel of a sublime work of art.
The clitoris owes its extraordinary erogenous sensitivity to its extremely soft structure. The considerable richness of the clitoridian vascularization allows it an immense congestion, and the incomparable richness of innervations offers it an "explosive" sensitivity, especially due to the abundance of voluptuous receivers in this zone.
The clitoris has a special, matchless acuity such that the sensations produced here may be easily transformed into passionate lust. Being so sensitive, a direct contact with the clitoris will always be incandescent and may be compared to a real living explosive.
WHERE IS THE SENSITIVE POINT OF THE CLITORIS?
Women say that this point differs from case to case:
on the tip of the clitoris' glands, on the edge that separates the glands from the clitoris' prepuce
under the clitoris
circular or around the glands.
If the excitation is not felt right away, this means there is always a little distance between the point of excitation and the point where the woman wants to be touched.
Generally, the clitoris prefers to be stimulated by a more extensive touch, this way the caressing is sweeter and not strictly located. Of course if the nectar of love, meaning the lubricating vaginal fluids are not abundant then lubricate the clitoris' surface, to do this you could moisten your fingers with saliva...