by profesor yoga Gregorian Bivolaru
By this I do not want you to understand that, in the case of a profound and harmonious relationship of love, we cannot have anything to gain from perseverant attention, focused appropriately on the most proper situations.
If, in the case of a couple relationship we get to be obsessed with only expressing our feelings, we will soon get, analogically speaking, in the situation of a human being who squeezes fiercely, until the last drop, all the juice that exists in a fruit, and thereafter, by squeezing the fruit completely there will only remain its dry dull peel. In such a situation, the empty, dull, dry shape that remains is almost totally lacking any content. In any couple based on mutual love and transfiguration, the state of spontaneity must be maintained unaltered. In the case of a couple in which the state of playfulness, transfiguration and love are maintained, our efforts must never be grim. Our efforts, even when they are made, must be spontaneous, and the state of play must remain constant.
Excerpt from the work ESSENTIAL AMOROUS SECRETS FOR THE YOGIC COUPLES THAT ASPIRE TO BE HAPPY (Chapter 7) by yoga teacher Gregorian Bivolaru