You may uncover your real sexual identity and fulfill your full orgasmic potential using one or several of the various sexual aids that you can now find in the specialized shops.
The relevance of their use is clear in helping you experience more exciting sexual sensations and have greater orgasms.
It has been proven that for some women masturbation and/or sexual aids are the only method to reach orgasm. Consequently, this fact makes them important for a healthy, fulfilling sexual life.
Sex toys or sexual aids are known all over the world for thousands years. For instance, the famous love eggs were part of the sexual experience in China from ancient times. These are small round spherical or oval objects inserted into the vagina to produce erotic sensations as the woman walks around.
These eggs were also used in the training of a woman's sexual muscles, so that her strong vaginal muscles would produce intense erotic sensations and pleasure to the man. For further information, read the article Such love eggs are available today also, although the modern ones are hollow and have small weights inside, and are connected with a string.
Yet another even more famous example of sex toy known in ancient times is the dildo, a kind of artificial penis, made of wood, china or steel. Both men and women may use them. There are dildos than have straps to be attached to the groin area, so that they can be used by two women making love, to emulate the male sexual role.
Men too can strap on a dildo to have a perfectly erect penis all the time during intercourse. The modern, sophisticated version of the dildo is the vibrator with battery power and small vibrating motor. These vibrations are very stimulating for a woman, as the stimulus has effect on the sensory nerve endings.
For instance, during penetrative intercourse, the friction of the penis, the inside of the vagina, labia and clitoris brings about the stimulation. The vibrator, however, can stimulate the nerve endings at a much faster rate, so that orgasm is almost certitude (we talk here about the orgasm without discharging the sexual energy).
A vibrator is an invaluable help for a woman to explore her body, to find her sensitive areas, and to reach her true sexual potential.
The stimulation is so intense, that it may simply overwhelm the psychological blocks that prevented the woman form achieving satisfaction. They may incorporate a vibrator into the erotic game until the remaining mental barriers have been overcome.
Some women may be reluctant to touching themselves in order to achieve erotic satisfaction because of guilt issues. For other women, the inability to achieve erotic satisfaction may be due to the lack of understanding of their own sexuality.
Here the vibrator may be used to discover the erotically sensitive parts of the body. The woman may feel more comfortable if she has her first experience with a vibrator while she is alone.
She should then create the right atmosphere to explore her body and really let go of all inhibitions: a time with no disturbance, phone off the hook, the light turned down low.
Reveling in her sexual fantasies is helpful, as the vibrator will do the rest of the work. Playing with the vibrator on the inside of the thighs and over the mons before the inside of the labia.
Some women may not be able to hold the vibrator against their clitoris for too long, but if placed just above or alongside, the erotic sensations it produces may prove sufficient to reach the climax. Another method is to insert the vibrator inside the vagina and either to move it in and out, or to let the vibrations have their way.
If the vibrator is to be used inside the vagina, however, there is need for further lubrication. Consequently, lubricating cream or gel smeared over the labia and clitoris will enhance the sensations as well.
VIBRATORS FOR MEN
A man's sexual response may also highly benefit form the use of vibrators. For some men, the glans or tip of the penis may be too sensitive to take this kind of stimulation for too long, but other men may find it quite arousing.
This method has been used successfully to cure impotence in some cases. The whole shaft of the penis may be responsive to vibrations and especially the underside and the frenulum. However, there are other areas on a man's body that can be discovered with a vibrator.
The base of the penis is particularly sensitive to vibrations, but it may also be helpful on the perineum, as the pulsing effect may reach as far as the prostate, a gland that can produce extremely intense erotic sensations when stimulated.
A vibrator is quite useful in two, as well. It can heighten the sexual response during intercourse. The man may slide it over his lover's thighs, breasts, or around her vulva, while the man may benefit is stimulated on his thighs and buttocks.
There is a wide variety of shapes of sizes for the vibrators. You may check the online catalogues to decide which one best suits your needs and desires.
There are some vibrators with smooth surfaces, or other covered with a ribbed or grooved pattern, to increase the stimulation. Another important aspect is to check the noise of the motor, as it may become a source of embarrassment.