I have often met with the idea that during oral sex some noxious substances are emitted. This is in fact simply a preconceived idea which influences the practice of genital kissing, since it is an ancient love-making technique capable of propelling us towards erotic ecstasy in a completely natural and refined way. People think that having oral sex is a perverse act and they refrain from it even if they would like to do it. Furthermore, some people seem unable to admit that this impulse originates in the human nature itself.
"The pleasure felt by the mouth in that moment is delightful both for the man and the woman. This can be experienced to the full when the woman lies on the body of her lover in the opposite direction: he will then introduce his penis in her mouth and his head will be between her promising thighs. He will touch her for a long time using his tongue."
Controlling pleasure becomes a must for a man who wants his lover to reach the climax of ecstasy. In fact, sexual continence represents the influence of consciousness over the senses, a victory of intelligence over instinct. Thus a man will manage to make his lover very happy and she will feel much more loved by him.
Every woman has her unique way of being. The female genital system differentiates in form, in the way the clitoris is placed, the colour and the aspect of the labia or the texture of the pubic hair. The intimate touch of the vulva awakens the desire to stimulate it up to the possible limits of excitation. Between the widely opened thighs of his lover, man may discover many fascinating and unique aspects of the female sex. The "relieves" that make up this extremely secret zone, wait to be sculptured by a simultaneous massage made by the lips, tongue and fingers. The different ways of kissing your lovers yoni should be learnt from the "classical" kiss, because just like the mouth, the female yoni has "lips" and "tongue".
The slower you touch the vulva, the more it awakens the woman's lust. This growth of erotic pressure becomes obvious when her breath gets deeper and deeper and the spontaneous moves of her body are ample, the woman stretches her body like a bow, waving it from her neck down to buttocks.
Admirable and daring, the woman's act of shamelessly displaying her clitoris is, without doubt, the proof of her desire to offer herself to sight and to thrilling contact of her lover's mouth. Simultaneously, her mouth will feel and touch his lover's penis. Devouring and looking at each other, caressing and hugging, in each others arms, they abandon to one another in a continuous manner. As a consequence their sexual organs melt with their lips, following the harmonious dance of timeless lovemaking.
EIGHT STEPS OF CUNNILINGUS FROM THE KAMA SUTRA
The man, using the tips of his fingers delicately presses the "lips" of the "cave of love", carefully bringing them close together and kissing them as if he were kissing the superior lips of his lover. This is the Thrilling Kiss
Then he moves away from the labia and introduces his tongue into her vagina, while his nose, cheeks and lips move circularly with him. This is the technique of Moving Around the Tongue
The lover keeps his tongue still between the two labia and afterwards he introduces it strongly into the vagina, causing the "nectar of love" to burst out. This technique is called Massage with the Tongue
In the next phase he will attach his lips to her labia and will kiss her deeply, lovingly, gently biting and sucking her clitoris. This is Absorption
The man, using his palms, lifts the excited buttocks of his lover and then explores his lovers navel with the tip of his tongue. Afterwards he slides downwards in order to reach the dwelling of the "god of love" where he will sip the "water of love". This is Sipping
The woman holds her thighs with her hands, moving them up as far as possible, while the man sips with his tongue from her sacred "spring". This is called Turning Around
The man lays his lover on a sofa, lifts her legs and put them on his shoulders, he then embraces her waist and afterwards gives her a prolonged kiss at the opening of her vagina, absorbing her intimate fluids. Thus he applies a method called Intense Absorption
The two lovers lie next to each other, head to genitals, and kiss each other's sexual organs, thus using the technique of Cooing